If you get flamed, embrace it. You can't be that sensitive you get "sad" if someone goes "mean" on you with couple of chosen words. We live in a cruel world, get used to it, you'll get roasted in the future. I can't understand, seriously, getting insulted in a online game? What kind of a wimp are you? How can the words of an random teammate hurt you in any ways? Grow a thick skin, you'll need it outside league of children's game. Living in your fantasy "everybody should be nice" -world, will cost you in many ways.