Differences between trolling & flaming

I still think its funny how people can ruin others experience on purpose without any consequences at all. If you do, however call someone out for it, without any toxic slurs or flame or whatever, the system will punish you for it. How long can people get away with ruining an experience absolutely consequence free and where is the line drawn, for flame and asking for an explanation?
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