Febos (EUW)
: Fifty Shades of %%%
{{sticker:slayer-pantheon-thumbs}} Thanks dude
Aezander (EUW)
: > [{quoted}](name=Lari,realm=EUNE,application-id=yTagKVTg,discussion-id=uxv6xWbA,comment-id=0002000000010000000100020000000000000000,timestamp=2019-03-22T16:03:54.494+0000) > > {{sticker:sg-miss-fortune}} it is sad though that people are attacking based on the title and not the text In a text the title is important ... Heck, in a YouTube video title is important (clickbait anyone) ... Even more so when dealing with a controvesial/sensitive subject. So the reactions were pretty much expected. {{summoner:31}}
Yeah the title usually makes you read the text supporting it but in this case i feel that no one actually read the text.
Aezander (EUW)
: > [{quoted}](name=Rena,realm=EUW,application-id=yTagKVTg,discussion-id=uxv6xWbA,comment-id=000800010000,timestamp=2019-03-22T15:43:03.057+0000) > > I don't see what is wrong with it. > He did not encourage people to write k.y.s. to strangers. > He did not encrourage suicide. > > He joked about a phrase that is refered to it, that is true. > But really I don't see how anyone would be offended by it. What's wrong ? ... hmm ... For starters, the one thing that has the biggest impact ... His title. Worst choice he could have made, and makes for a bad start. Add that the first line in the main text is "*Why people getting banned for %%%, this info called %%% people send to chat does not have one meaning so it depends on how your brain sees the world.*" which somehow manages to continue the bad narrative that is his title and removes the levity of the rest of the text. Had the title been posed different, and the start of the text too, it would have been worth at least a chuckle. As it such, I can see why it would offend people; because it comes out as a poor attempt (the idea had potetial, the excecution ... well, hanged it dry {{summoner:31}} ).
i was obviously being ironic dude.{{sticker:slayer-jinx-unamused}}
radetari (EUNE)
: try to post this on NA boards i think the complete opposite situation with the votes would happen
Nope did not work some weird euw dudes followed me to this quest and downvoted me in NA boards as well
Aezander (EUW)
: > [{quoted}](name=Lari,realm=EUNE,application-id=yTagKVTg,discussion-id=uxv6xWbA,comment-id=00020000000100000001000200000000,timestamp=2019-03-22T15:40:35.729+0000) > > I think it was not a good choice of title indeed and many emphasized more on the tittle than the actual text. It was probably the worst choice you could have made regarding this acronym. You essentially buried your attempt to levity with your own two hands and even carved it's tombstone inscribed in the Black Speech of Mordor. {{summoner:31}} {{summoner:31}}
{{sticker:sg-miss-fortune}} it is sad though that people are attacking based on the title and not the text
: No, I haven't taken it to a whole "other level". You need to realise what you may view as funny, is upsetting for others. I'm not jumping on the bandwagon of "censor everything". Infact my sense of humour is quite snarky (hence the name). But there are subjects that should not be joked about - this is one of them. >If you are not in this group of people then it is your word against mine I even provided you an example based on my personal experiences. I can assure you I definitely have had my brushes with it. From someone who has been directly impacted by this sort of thing: It's not a joke. Stop trying to make it one. Just don't use it and report those who do.
I think you are way off track NO ONE tried to make a joke about suicide. I think you need to read the context again. All i said was dont let others ruin your day by using 3 letters that is all. It is sad u think i would joke about someones mental health. Their is nowehere in the text something that would imply such thing, only the title is a bit misleading
Aezander (EUW)
: > [{quoted}](name=Lari,realm=EUNE,application-id=yTagKVTg,discussion-id=uxv6xWbA,comment-id=000200000001000000010002,timestamp=2019-03-22T14:59:16.696+0000) > > If you are not in this group of people then it is your word against mine **i tried to find a way for people not to get upset by all the toxic players in game** and you took this to a whole other level. The way you structured your topic, where you placed it, and how you titled it makes it seem like you are trying to downplay the severity of saying %%% (i.e. kill yourself) to a stranger over the internet; a stanger you have no idea what baggage he's carrying, and the probable repercussions of throwing that acronym without thought towards him. You could have conveyed **that** had you set up your way in a different way. For example, you could have titled it "***Fifty shades of %%%***", found/thought 50 phrases that conform to the %%% acronym and before listing them you could proceed to explain what it actually means, how it normally should not be used, but if encountered you could pick one of the 50 possibilities to have in mind to avoid falling into a downward spiral and hopefully *keep calm and farm*. Even George Carlin's Seven Dirty words skit had more thought and tact than your attempt at levity...
I think it was not a good choice of title indeed and many emphasized more on the tittle than the actual text.
Rena (EUW)
: Don't get why this gets so much hate. People saying his joke was awful and that he shouldn't joke about suicide. He just Ironically mentioned what k.y.s. could also stand for. His joke has nothing to do with suicide. I have delt with suicidal thoughts before myself and I have lost a friend to it. I do not find his joke offensive in anyway. He didn't joke about that people should commit suicide. That i wouldn't have found very funny too. But his joke actually made me laugh when i read "kiss your sister". So stop Whiteknighting for upvotes.
Thank you good sir. A lot of people did not get what i was trying to do and found the chance to flame. I am glad you like it {{sticker:slayer-jinx-catface}}
radetari (EUNE)
: try to post this on NA boards i think the complete opposite situation with the votes would happen
Lets give it a try :)
: See, he is just proving me right
{{sticker:zombie-brand-facepalm}} just that
: >you should not take them seriously and just convert the word into something else more nice That's not how triggers work - and no I'm not meme statusing the word trigger here either, that's a whole different thing. For example, I have a few triggers myself from some rather traumatic past experiences. When they happen I either: A. Have the mental strength at the time to deal with it OR B. Don't have the mental strength and spiral downward. Most people experience this in a similar fashion - it's different for everyone but these are the most common two options when you deal with a trigger. So turning into a "joke" doesn't really help here, because it kind of just makes the whole situation focus on that trigger.
If you are not in this group of people then it is your word against mine i tried to find a way for people not to get upset by all the toxic players in game and you took this to a whole other level.
: I am 99% sure he is perfectly aware of every point you make. Considering his replies, he is just trying to save whatever is left of his "image".
????????????? wtf are you implying? "image" are you serious ? No dude i stand by my joke and i don't care what the %%%% you think of me, It is sad that you don't understand my point of view. I guess you are one of these people in boards that find a way to present them self more intelligent and mature by trash talking someone who expresses his opinion.
: Because it's not funny. You need to consider for a moment here that mental health issues, whilst not widely talked about, affect pretty much the vast majority of the world population to some degree. That means that there is a large number of people who have had some interaction with self harm - wether it's themselves or others. When you see someone make a mockery of something that is serious, of essentially someones death, it's not funny. There is no joke here. Just a poor attempt to excuse being crude. >But i guess you have the Riot rules to follow :( I'm held to the same standards as you. I don't have any special rules to follow.
You did not get what i am saying, the joke is referring to the "recipient " of the insult if you are playing a game which you obviously want to enjoy and there is a crazy dude spamming these insults, you should not take them seriously and just convert the word into something else more nice, so that you will not get mad or ruin your mood. That is all :)
: oh just go knead your stuffings {{sticker:sg-miss-fortune}}
HAhahaha true
: jokes are usually funny tho...
Usually {{sticker:sg-lulu}}
: yeah and every time after that i ask him "where's the food" -_-
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: Yeah that's not how it works. Almost no one uses them in that context - those phrases are not commonly abreviated to that. It's an awful attempt at a joke. That's why there's zero tolerance on the phrase. It may not be as simple to see why it's abhorrent, but for those of us who have been affected by suicide... It's not a joke. So don't.
Dude it is a joke/ advice why can not you think out of the box? But i guess you have the Riot rules to follow :(
: of course, i missed a gank and the midlaner told me to kiss my sister...suuuuuuure
no but you should "know your surroundings"
radetari (EUNE)
: WHY IS THIS DOWNVOTED this is a perfect tip in case you ever get someone that tells you that to avoid tilt
Thank you someone got what i was trying to do thanks man. {{sticker:slayer-pantheon-thumbs}}
Mada (EUW)
: Your joke is bad and you should feel bad!
No i m proud of my jokes no matter how bad they are :)
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: Do you have the memory span of a goldfish?
Dodging a random league game is not considered an important info for my brain my toxic friend, so i don't let such info keep the free space of my brain's capacity :)
: How do you not remember if you dodged or not? I call bs
cause the were 10hours of sleep in between :)
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Voldymort (EUNE)
: Depends what you mean by "better"
Non melee adc, people picking champs out of strategy and not out of whim stuff like that
Hansiman (EUW)
: There's plenty of methods to complain directly to Riot. Taking jabs at other players is not one of them.
I have made 4 posts about the poor matchmaking the last month but no one seems to care :(
: > "Nice Riot matchmaking, 2 silvers and a bad support pick" Why is matchmaking responsible for player picks?
The only bad pick was the g1 support the rest were not so bad, the silver comment was referring to the bad performance of our mid and jg who were s1
Hansiman (EUW)
: > Nice Riot matchmaking, 2 silvers and a bad support pick That's not just complaining about matchmaking, it's taking a direct jab at people in your game.
Since i can not complain to Riot directly i have to complain to someone about this
Voldymort (EUNE)
: > I hope i get out of this Elo fast i hate to break it to you but toxicity exists in some form or another at all ranks. even high Diamond and above
But the games are better right?
Hansiman (EUW)
: > or they randomly start accusing the one player that was actually trying to win the game. You obviously did aggrevate them by blaming them in your statement. Their response isn't ok, but you should expect to see more bad behavior from others when you display it yourself.
I did not blame them it is not their Fault Riot placed the in a higher Elo game, and blitz just did a poor choice of support, which his adc asked him not to pick against that specific enemy team.
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Hansiman (EUW)
: Back in season 7, there were plenty of people saying the same thing about how ranked games used to be serious in a previous season, but no longer.
So it gets worse every year i guess, but at what point ranked games are a total clown fiesta at the moment, this needs to be fixed.
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Hansiman (EUW)
: They have to be very adamant on cases of players using 3rd party programs. If you open for unbanning people when they claim someone else was using their account, you'd open up for players being able to cheat and then using the excuse that someone else did it. This would just increase the amount of cheating in games, and people wouldn't really risk a penalty for it.
But in my case they know someone else did this the account was actually hacked
: Hi Lari, you should tell your friend to go back to his "my account got hacked" support thread, and comment there saying that during the time his account was hacked, the hacker used illegal programs that caused the account to get banned. They will help him figure out what to do next.
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VIT Laati (EUNE)
: If you lose LP due to monkeys, I'd highly recommend not to play ranked in the cages of a zoo.
: it would be fair but not good if it worked that way i think cuz everybody would just ks as much as they can so they wont get high lp lose sometimes its sad but. play as a team lose as a team{{item:3151}}
Well it is not always about the kills a good sup may have 28 assists and 100 vision score
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: So when are tank stats actually getting buffed?
The problem is with balance last season Adc were a troll pick and tanks were OP now tanks are awful and adc like Vayne are OP. If something changes again i doubt there will be balance something will always be broken.
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